Sometimes people do not want to commit to you regardless of how much they like you or how good you make them feel.
Sometimes they just suddenly stay away from you or stop loving you further to save themselves from vulnerability. It is simply a selfish and nonsensical reason.
Does the inability to commit yourself to someone you like affect your maturity when it comes to relationships? I am not sure; but I do know that when people cannot commit themselves yet, it reflects their willingness and preparedness to take risks.
When they think they aren’t ready yet, when will they be?
“In time,” they may say.
“In time” may take forever.
When you fall, it just happens. You cannot plan nor set a schedule for it.
It is okay to allow yourself to feel vulnerable sometimes. It shows that you can feel something. It shows that you can feel pain, and that you’re human. It is okay to have someone to make you feel that way. You can love, and you shouldn’t stop yourself from feeling it.
And if someone decides to stay away from you, or stops loving you further because of reasons unknown, it isn’t going to be your fault.
Continue being adorable. You are an awesome-azingly beautiful human being. ❤